A long-time CEF volunteer, co-teacher with Lou Brodgen, special friend, hugger, and lover of all children. During a difficult time in her life, Sandy started the Butterflz youth ministry along with CEF and her church. many city kids were reached and nurtured. Her “Celebration of Life” was held on October 24th at Christian Assembly Church in Durham. A butterfly release was done outside following the service. Sandy will certainly be missed, but is now with her Savior in Heaven. June 14, 1969 – Oct. 11, 2020

Friends of CEF Durham: Help us reach city kids now by sponsoring a child/youth to attend a camp this Fall 2020 or Spring 2021   Camps for City Kids includes: Sports instruction and play, character development, Bible clubs with life skills and social etiquette classes, as well as helping all campers understand their God-given value, power, and destiny.

Coach Parrish, after 44 years of coaching and now caring for his son Andy, has join me along with a friend and former Jordan High School classmate, Emily Biggs, with this challenge to all supporters of CEF Durham and all former players of Coach. In the words of Coach Parrish: This is a great opportunity to give back from your athletic experiences to a young kid that needs direction during their early years of development… Today’s city kids need the same challenge and opportunities my former players had, now more than ever.

John Blake recently reported to the CEF Durham Board that 15% of all children we reached this year were enrolled in weekly clubs and programs in schools and neighborhoods. 78% of the total 7,138 kids reached were reached before the COVID-19 pandemic. Thus, direct outreach has been a challenge! Even so, 1,500 kids were ministered to this summer in virtual camps, via back-to-school events, and COVID-relief supplies for their families. So, going forward, we will continue virtual clubs/teaching and offer a few camps this Fall and hopefully many more next Spring 2021.

After 44 years of coaching: Coach Parrish has a challenge

Hey! I’m reaching out to all of my former players from Githens Junior School to JHS, SHS, RHS, and JHS again as well as all JPS and PS campers. I’m thanking all of you for all of my GREAT MEMORIES from the start – 1968 – to the end – 2012 – of my coaching journey. On behalf of one of our guys, John “Doc” Blake, a JHS ‘73 student and sport trainer, who went on to become a Sport Medicine and strength coach caring for East Carolina athletes, then at SHS, RHS, JPS and PS athletes.

Today “doc” is the director of CEF in the Durham area. I’ve served on the CEF Board of Directors and led summer sports camps with CEF until Andy’s accident. So, Andy and I, along with Emily and “doc” are challenging each of you to sponsor kids to attend the next camps, which doc Blake and CEF will be offering this Fall and next Spring. This will be a great opportunity to give back from your athletic experiences to a young kid that needs direction during their early development. 

I still love all of you who ran those suicides, which helped in developing your physical and mental toughness to win. Today’s city kids need this same challenge and opportunity more than ever. Finally, I would love the opportunity to reconnect with you.  Just use any of the many media means to contact with me.
Coach Larry Parrish

  1. Wonderful! *TAKING SUNDAY SCHOOL INTO THE PUBLIC SCHOOL!!!* Your Servant in Christ! *Nancy Bulow, Ministry Coordinator* ( 828) 329-0749 nbulow17@gmail.com…

Connell Green September 7, 1964 – June 29, 2020

Connell lived and ministered in a community where CEF has served in Downtown Durham for 20 years

From Christ Central Church, where both Connell and I have attended for 5 years:

We are heartbroken to share that Connell Green passed away on Monday, June 29, 2020, of liver failure.

Connell was one of Christ Central’s earliest members. We will miss Connell’s bold prayers, his wise and prophetic spirit, his knowledge of scripture, and how easily he called upon God’s Word. We’ll miss his infectious laughter and his smile that could light up an entire room. We’ll miss the way Connell was quick to offer encouragement, to strangers and friends alike. In fact, to Connell, everyone was a friend. He knew no stranger

Connell loved people well. Most recently, we witnessed this as he championed his neighbors from McDougald Terrace who were displaced together for many months. He admirably cared for others in the midst of a really difficult situation. 

Connell’s entrepreneurial spirit was inspiring. He loved baking cookies and sharing them with others. He was a family man who shared his love for his children and grandchildren often. Connell loved to dance. He was a Jobs for Life graduate and an author. 

We grieve Connell’s loss. We also grieve a reality that prevents us from attending his funeral or hosting a celebration for him at this time. We plan to honor Connell’s life in-person when it is safe to do so. Though we find assurance in knowing that Connell is with his Savior Jesus in Heaven, we miss him so much already.

“The problem wasn’t that I couldn’t put words to paper. The problem was I couldn’t get those words to make sense. That’s because I wasn’t clear on my objective. I was trying to say too much and, as result, I was saying nothing.” writes Brenda Barbosa The One Sentence That Will make You a More Effective Speaker Wow! I can so identify with her statements. I will share a few more of her comments as well as mine to my friends who have so much passion for their mission and truly have something to say.

“This… will make all your speeches clear, concise, and compelling.”

If your audience is often confused and lost:

Here’s a few tips for becoming more effective when you communicate as you speak and write

  • Distill your thoughts into one succinct takeaway for the audience/reader — it’s your big idea
  • Choose a topic out of your big idea and focus on it
    • Without a big idea to light the way, you’ll wander aimlessly through draft after draft of your speech… you’ll become so tired of going in circles you’ll simply want to give up or, worse, you’ll decide to “wing it.” …jotting down some notes, throw together a few slides, slap on a title, and call it a presentation.
  • Determine what inspires you about the topic
    • This is usually your area of expertise or passion
  • Articulate your inspiration (idea) with one sentence
    • Think of the single sentence as a lighthouse guiding you through fog. If you become overwhelmed with an abundance of data or competing themes, the single sentence will help you stay on track.
  • Note: Any piece of data, story, or anecdote that doesn’t jive with your single sentence should be trashed (probably can be used later with another talk and newsletter)

“Anyone who has an idea worth sharing is capable of giving a powerful talk,” Anderson writes in his book, TED Talks: The Official Guide to Public Speaking. “The only thing that truly matters in public speaking is not confidence, stage presence, or smooth talking. It’s having something worth saying.”

Summer training via CEF Ministries of North Carolina Durham Area Chapter and Camps for City Kids are underway (virtually for now) #Zoom #GoogleMeet #teens #interns #dns_readingcamp #citykids #cityreach cyiatraining #summermissions

Reading and academic sessions, Bible (CEF 5-Day Clubs), etiquette classes, life skills, character development (Power & Light), and some health & wellness mixed in weekly provides a full schedule of relevant and helpful opportunities for students who will be starting a new school year in grades 4-8th in August. These camps run for 6-weeks June 15th-July 23rd.

Sponsorships are still needed for kids to attend our summer and fall camps. Tax-deductible donations are received at Camps for City Kids.

Engagement Strategies

Portions of this series will be presented in short segments during CEF of North Carolina statewide staff WebEx meetings and completely with full discussions and strategy sessions when feasible per COVID-19 restrictions. All are welcome to read and Q/A with me, but the live series will be presented to NC staff. Topics to be expanded into strategies and discussed:

  • Resource Development
  • Donor Development
  • Ministry Development
  • Operational System Development

Camps for City Kids will be held for 4 consecutive days during the summer months and school holiday sessions.  These camps emphasize putting God first in every aspect of play and life.  Building solid athletic skills and strong Christian character during drills and team play are expected of every camper. Basketball, Soccer, and Tennis are regularly offered, but other sports like Wrestling, Baseball, Football, and Black-top Games have been held in the past. Sports camps, clinics, and tennis academies are typically held in the Spring, Summer, and Fall. Fitness and healthy lifestyles are emphasized during all sessions.

As with everyone, almost, COVID-19 has thrust uncertainty and even cancellation into many great events, vacations, and efforts for kids this summer. However, we are still planning and preparing for these camps in the event we can keep our schedule of 6-weeks June 15-July 23, 2020. If we have to alter and adjust the schedule, then we will still be ready for the kids. So, please sponsor-a-city kid to attend a camp this summer using any of the donate buttons on the CEF Durham site or via our Facebook Fundraiser.

It needs unique strategies and truthful answers to children’s tough questions.

Since all clubs, schools, and camps are cancelled addressing care and prevention of COVID-19, CEF Durham, as many other organizations and agencies, is praying, brainstorming, and planning in many venues and modes of communication. Thus, we are innovating and adjusting how we minister to children and families. Some brief and direct contact with families has occurred to bring supplies, helps, breakfast, and the “Do You Wonder Why?” booklets to each home and child enrolled in CEF clubs.

Though we cannot be directly with the children in our clubs and camps, we are continuing to teach and love the kids in our weekly outreach and discipleship meetings via Zoom calls, web-based teaching, and prayer. Here are other FREE Resources CEF is providing for children, families, and teachers during the COVID-19 pandemic. Do not fear and be encouraged.

Disruptions are defined as a disturbance or problems which interrupt an event, activity, or process. Thus, it’s fair to say, disruptions happen regularly, randomly, and even repetitively.

“Disruption is hard, Carey Nieuwhof writes in his blog, because disruption is inconvenient. It’s far easier to keep doing what you’re doing hoping for better results. But just know this: being disrupted is far more painful than deciding to disrupt yourself.” Listening and being prepared as well as being prudent are absolutes in our world of change, trends, flux, aka disruption, whether in ministry, business, or in any type of leadership position.

With that in mind, here are several predicted and active disruptive trends in ministry and leadership that will rule 2020, says Nieuwhof, which are worth knowing and using to evaluate your ministry and/or leadership.

  1. Content-based ministry will decline — Missions and movements will grow: Emphasizing moments and movements and mission are more critical than ever. People don’t just want to know what’s true, they want to know what’s real. And what’s real is deeper than just an idea—it’s an experience.
  2. Growing churches and ministries tend to be led by younger leaders. As a result, the older you get, the less likely you are to innovate, meaning methods. Innovation drives growth and connections with emerging generations. When the methods atrophy, the mission dies.
  3. If you’re looking to deepen the impact of your ministry in 2020, think better prepared/delivered messages, not more messages or ministry events. Quality beats quantity. Everyone will be better.
  4. The middle is disappearing from our culture. This middle is where average lives. The middle is trying to reach everybody. People are gravitating to and seeking smaller, high-quality, and interpersonal gatherings where they can grow spiritually in an interactive faith community. Many restless Christians are moving towards the other extreme of Christian community in mega churches. The extreme ends or the high and the low of churches, business, marketplace, and ministries are thriving. Increase the quality and accessibility of what people need and want.
  5. Insight and access are now more valuable than information. When information is free, it’s no longer valuable because scarcity drives value. And now there’s so much of it no one knows how to process it. Content is everywhere but insight and access are not, there’s a value inversion that’s happening right now in live events.

So, what does all this mean or just suggest? “Leading people to Jesus in a world that’s moving away from Jesus is an increasingly difficult challenge…and increasingly larger opportunity.”

Carey Nieuwhof

Reflect on this content and the full articles by Carey Nieuwhof. Gain insight via access of meeting and discussing these matters with your staff, business teams, and ministry leaders. Factor and apply any adjustments or action points gained for your organization.

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